I don't kow Usullusa other than what Spark in Darkness has posted on his LJ.Anyway... snipped from Sparky's LJ...
Usullusa is going through several kinds of hell after coming out to the family. Parents have not taken it well and are making life quite intolerable. All kinds of chaos and terrible sh**ness abound – I am so deeply sorry for them, no-one should have to endure this rollercoaster.
As detailed here (http://usullusa.livejournal.com/88843.h
If you or anyone you know in the NYC area can help please do.